Brotherhood of Fatherhood 169: The gentle art of leadership with Matt Shoup

Matt Shoup is a Jesus follower, husband, father, an award-winning serial entrepreneur, author, keynote speaker, Spain aficionado, aspiring paella chef, Brazilian Jiu Jitsu black belt, and Spanish coffee addict. Matt’s entrepreneurial journey began at the age of 10, when he started a lawn mowing business to earn $200 for a boombox. It was then that Matt discovered his passion and love of business. Ten years later, while studying at Colorado State University, Matt was recruited by a college painting company, where he learned even more about sales, marketing, and business operations. Matt made lots of money in college and then spent three times what he made. 00:00 We need to be physically strong 2:49 The equation for a good marriage. 8:40 The takeaway on the date. 14:34 What works and what doesn’t work 18:30 Understanding your spouse’s language. 22:29 Love languages, personality styles and understanding each other. 27:13 Emily’s standard of behavior. 31:13 Growing vulnerability, understanding and understanding. 35:09 Getting below the bravado of masculinity 40:37 The importance of habit stacking 43:30 The gift of violence 58:50 Three responses to Haley's Facebook post. https://www.facebook.com/matt.shoup https://www.linkedin.com/in/mattshoup/ https://www.instagram.com/matthewshoup/ https://www.youtube.com/c/mattshoup https://www.tiktok.com/@mattshoup https://twitter.com/MattShoup https://www.mattshoup.com Be sure to check out this episode of the BOF Podcast. Don't forget to like, share and subscribe! Join the Brotherhood of Fatherhood FB group at https://www.facebook.com/groups/brotherhoodoffatherhood www.brotherhoodfatherhood.com/alpha