Why is no one talking about the reality of gender disappointment?

Sarah Fowler is a mum of two girls, a birth photographer, and someone who understands the deep shame that some parents feel if they don't get the baby of their desired gender. She says that it is the guilt over those feelings that stops people talking about their disappointment. Sarah explains why she felt disappointment with one of her births, and how she overcame the guilt.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.