68 - HOMETRUTH - Why healthy relationships feel foreign after toxic ones

In a new solo HOMETRUTH segment, Louise hops on a solo episode to ask 'why does no one talk about how hard a healthy relationship is after years of toxic ones? ' Louise talks about the truths you need to accept, why healthy relationships feel uncomfortable after toxic ones, what to do about it, and more, including: ⇢ healthy love after toxic love ⇢ suspicion & being hyper vigilant to every future partner ⇢ self sabotage & why you might just want to f**k it all up  ⇢ why healthy sometimes feels boring or gives you the “ick” ⇢ the nervous system activation of “butterflies” & attachment trauma  ⇢ what we need to learn about baby butterflies; and ⇢ why even the sex might feel different in a healthy relationship.  Recommended listening on toxic relationships: ⇢#16 - how to deal with out of bounds relationships / why we keep it quiet ⇢#67 - ‘hard work partner or toxic abuse?’ ⇢#24 - how to leave a toxic relationship, safely ⇢#64 - why are you attracted to people’s confusing behaviour? ⇢#33 - why you’re attracted to inconsistent men / women (+ how to break it #44) ⇢#13 -Louise's experiences in a toxic relationship ⇢#12 - how codependency can also suggest toxic trauma bonds ⇢#47 - d**khead or narcissist? The 101 guide to narcissism and  ––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––  Connect with Louise on Instagram: @iamlouiserumball Connect with Louise on TikTok: @thetherapygirl___ Connect with OPENHOUSE: @openhouselife Sign up to join the OPENHOUSE mailing list to receive first access to all workshops, courses and live events: www.thisisopenhouse.com ––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices