346: Where are you in relation to “the thing”?

In this episode, Betsy shares her perspective on the emotional rollercoaster of buying a home in the Atlanta market, with bids on properties falling through and finally settling on a home she found had serious challenges structurally. What seemed like a nightmare turned into an exploration of perspectives, each party involved viewing the problem differently. The process reminded Betsy of crucial lessons about internal versus external security. While the structural integrity of the house was in question, she discovered resilience, strength in dealing with uncertainty and the power of owning your perspective. This episode invites you to look at your challenges differently, questioning if they could actually be incredible opportunities for growth. Tune in this week for an honest journey into home buying and self discovery. Transcript: Welcome to the Art of Living big podcast. My name is Betsy pake. I’m an author, a speaker, and a trainer of NLP and hypnotherapy. And I’m focused on helping you understand and design your life with the power of the subconscious. This podcast is designed to help you think differently about what could be possible for your life. Now, let’s go live big. Hey, everyone, Hi, welcome to the show today, welcome to The Art of Living big, I have recorded this show, I’ve recorded the show, like twice once was like 10 minutes. And then I was like, This is no good. Then I did like 45 minutes. And I was like, This is no good. So I’m not sure this is gonna be probably a short episode, I wanted to give you something I’m actually recording this morning. So if you’re listening to it on the day, it came out, like, Hi, I’m doing this this morning. So I want to kind of tell you what happened yesterday, and sort of give you like an update. So you know, typically when I do the show, and well, I was gonna say this might sound kind of odd, but maybe it won’t, till I sometimes don’t know what I’m going to talk about. But I sit down and I shut my eyes. And I talk and sometimes I’m surprised. But what I’m talking about, I rarely have like a really deep plan unless I have like a guest on. And I always have felt like that way it reached to the people it was supposed to reach, you know, like, it was an idea that came to me that I could talk about and it would be for somebody or a group of somebodies. And I always felt like I was really connected into the group. And so I would be able to do that. So it was easy. You know what I mean? So like, the podcast is like one of the easiest things that I do because I don’t really have to play golf, and I shut my eyes. And people have said before, you should record the podcast, so that we have like a video. Like when I used my producer back like beginning last year, that way we have like a video. And I’m like, yeah, like would literally be a video of me, like with my eyes shut. Wouldn’t be like, it wouldn’t be very good. It would be kind of weird, you know. And so um, and so yesterday, I sat down to do the show, and I couldn’t like get into it was really weird. And not so weird. I’m going to tell you what has kind of been going on in the last few weeks. And what I think happened. Also, this morning, fresh, I’m rested all of those things. And now it feels like so much easier. Right eyes are closed, I’m going to tell you a story that I didn’t know I was going to tell you. Okay. So you know, I’ve been buying this house, if you followed along, I have been trying to purchase a new home in Atlanta, I actually have we’ve closed on it. And, you know,