352: who am I without this?

In this episode of the Art of Living Big podcast, Betsy shares her personal journey of experiencing a shift in energy and circumstances. She explores the concept that we must be willing to experience something new. Betsy highlights the importance of examining our filters and beliefs, as they shape our experiences. She encourages you to let go of the old version of themselves and embrace a new perspective that aligns with their desires. Find Betsy on Instagram and share the episode here to be put into the giveaway. Transcription: Welcome to the Art of Living big podcast. My name is Betsy pake. I’m an author, a speaker, and a trainer of NLP and hypnotherapy. And I’m focused on helping you understand and design your life with the power of the subconscious. This podcast is designed to help you think differently about what could be possible for your life. Now, let’s go live big. Hello fellow adventurers, Hi, everybody, I am feeling so much better. If you have been here over the past few weeks, you know, that I had COVID. And I have had every thing go sideways that could possibly go and the tables have turned, things have changed. And things are just so much easier. I don’t know, maybe four or five days ago, I noticed there was a shift, you know, a shift in the energy. I actually had carpenter bees. That was one of the things that had happened, I had carpenter bees, and I called a company to come out and take care of the carpenter bees. I felt this shift in the energy, the guy showed up to take care of the carpenter bees. And he’s like, there’s just a couple spots, I’ll do it for free, no big deal. And that’s when I knew, like, Oh, good. We’re back. We’re back on. So things have been shifting and changing so much. But there’s something that I have been thinking about that I really want to talk to you about. And I think that this idea, I think that this idea might help you start to shift how you are experiencing your world and your life. Now, I started thinking about this, a couple different things happened. But I started thinking about this because I had a lot of downtime when I was sick. But I started thinking about this idea that we are already love. We are love, and everything else is not love. So fear is just being outside of love. Right jealousy, just outside of love, anger outside of love. But our natural, being our natural way of experiencing is pure love. And I think if we think about when we come into the world, for the most part, when we’re little babies, we expect to be taken care of. Like, if we’re upset about something, we let somebody know, we cry and let them know, if we are uncomfortable, we fuss and we let somebody know, if we’re hungry, we let somebody know, we expect that the world is going to meet our needs. And then something begins to happen, where we start moving away from that, like pure love, where I expect the world to meet me and we start moving into this place of patterns and stories, and the idea of who we are. And I think if we think about when we’re babies, we don’t have any concept of who we are, other than how people begin to relate to us. And as we all know, from being on this self healing journey, people relate to us based on who they are. So now we are starting to create who we think we are based on who other people around us think they are. And that begins to create our experiences. Now, I want to explain what I mean by create our experiences. If you’ve listened, if you’ve listened to the podcast, if you listen to a month or so ago,