355: This is why you don’t want to complain

In todays episode Betsy shares why you take the actions that you take and what happens to YOUR actions when you complain about someone else.There’s more to the story than you may think, so join her in the show today to learn more about yourself and how to reach your goals even faster! Transcription: Welcome to the Art of Living big podcast. My name is Betsy pake. I’m an author, a speaker, and a trainer of NLP and hypnotherapy. And I’m focused on helping you understand and design your life with the power of the subconscious. This podcast is designed to help you think differently about what could be possible for your life. Now, let’s go live big. Hello fellow adventurers. Hi, everybody. Welcome to the show today. Today I’m going to talk about well actually, I have a little story first, and then I’m going to talk about when we are complaining, I think it’s like complaining or even like criticizing or the things that you notice about other people that kind of drive you crazy, which is a human thing to do. But I really want to talk about that. Okay, so since I had COVID, last month, and I really got a chance to like, do nothing but think. And I can hardly think but in those moments I really had, what I would call like an evolution in how I’m thinking and how I’m feeling and the kinds of things that I want to do started to shift, the things that lit me up, felt different. And that was like a whole new thing. And welcome, it was such a welcome shift in my energy. And I look back over the past, like 12 or 14 months, and so many things have happened, that I think I really, really needed this break. And that break helped me to reset, right, it helped me to realign with my purpose and to where I was going and to really up level. It felt like a true ascension and how I was seeing things and how I was showing up. And to support that I started doing a lot of hypnosis, because I know that repatterning and changing those deep grooves, you know, the patterns that I had been running in the programs that I had been running, I had been running for years and years and years. And so when they shifted to something new, I wanted to support them. You know, sort of like if, if you planted a tree and it’s like a little skinny tree, and even though it’s planted, you put those support pieces of wood up or kind of ropes to like hold it in place. That’s what I wanted to do. I wanted to be able to give this new thought and beliefs and awareness, some support. And so every day I have been doing either well, almost every day hypnosis for sure. And NLP Neuro Linguistic Programming in between all of that. So as things would come up, or things would come into my awareness, or, you know, something would come up when I was doing the hypnosis and I was like, oh, that’s something new. So I have like a little traveler’s journal, if you guys know what those are traveler’s notebook, and I have just been jotting things down as they come up. So beliefs or ideas that are no longer serving me or, you know, patterns that I noticed, or just any ideas that I have I have been putting in there. Now. You’ve probably heard me talk about this if you have been here for any amount of time. But when Instagram changed, and really started focusing on video, I got so irritated, like I go more irritated than was normal. It just, I I liked doing the podcast. And I liked posting like words. But like having everything shift to video I just was like that’s what it’s trying to be tick tock it was like Instagram trying to be tick tock and I didn’t want to be on tick tock, I love me some tick tock watching. But I didn’t want to be a creator on there. So it’s been an interesting thing,