Episode 13: Swipe Right For Disappointment

OkCupid and Tinder are garbage fires, but occasionally you can find a diamond in the trash heap. In this episode, we give you the low-down on online dating: our favorite sites, our successful and not-so-successful dates, and our best tips for better matches. Plus, find out how Bex managed to have a threesome on a first date, and why Kate's one-night stand from Minneapolis sent her an apology a month later. Tinder vs. OkCupid | South Park | Show, Don't Tell | Compatibility Percentages | The End of Tinder | You Should Message Me If... | Conversation Starters | Obscure References | Kink Hints | Manic Pixie Dream Bean | Sex-Nerd Chats | Fizzling Out | An Excess of Cis Dudes | First-Date Threesome | Long-Term Ex | [Unfeminist Ex](http://www.theestablishment.co/2016/07/11/the-dangers-of-dating-faux-feminist-men/) | The Uber of Sex | "Makeouts, Etc." | Proofread Your Shit | Tutu to the Symphony | [First-Message Formula](../../the-anatomy-of-a-good-tinder-message/) | Pet Names | Commonalities | [Tinder Guys With Tigers](http://tinderguyswithtigers.tumblr.com/) | Swipe Right For Dogs | Group Shots | Ace Ventura | Queer Apps | Social Media As Motivation