#282: Pick Up Artists and Solving Murders, Neil Strauss on His Life After Writing The Game

Gabby sits down with renowned author and journalist Neil Strauss. Best known for his groundbreaking book The Game, Neil reflects on his journey from being a pickup artist to becoming a celebrated writer, podcaster, and advocate for self-improvement. Together, they discuss personal transformation, relationships, and how to navigate the complexities of love and life. Neil shares insights on overcoming insecurities, finding personal growth, and his current passion for exploring human psychology through crime podcasts. This episode is a raw and candid conversation about growth, self-awareness, and the evolution of one’s identity. Sponsors: Maui Nui - Get 20% off your first order of fresh venison, jerky, broth, and ‘ohana subscription by going to www.MauiNuiVenison.com/GABBY and using the code GABBY at checkout. Fatty 15 - Fatty15 is on a mission to replenish your C15 levels and restore your long-term health. You can get an additional 15% off their 90-day subscription Starter Kit by going to fatty15.com/GABBY and using code GABBY at checkout for an additional 15% off your first order. Bon Charge - My listeners get 15% off when you order from boncharge.com and use my exclusive promo code GABBY at checkout Main Sections & Timecodes Introduction to Neil Strauss and His Journey Beyond The Game [00:00:00 - 00:10:00] Neil reflects on his career and the long-lasting impact of The Game. From Pickup Artist to Personal Growth Advocate [00:10:01 - 00:25:00] Neil shares how his views on relationships and personal growth have evolved over the years. The Emotional Impact of Relationships [00:25:01 - 00:40:00] Discussing insecurities, Neil provides insights into navigating the complexities of love and emotions. Crime Podcasting and Real-Life Investigations [00:40:01 - 00:55:00] Neil talks about his fascination with crime stories and the lessons learned from true-life investigations. Love, Boundaries, and Growth [00:55:01 - 01:10:00] A candid discussion on setting healthy boundaries and how relationships can fuel personal growth. Exploring Vulnerability in Personal Growth [01:10:01 - 01:20:00] Neil delves into how vulnerability plays a crucial role in personal growth and relationships, sharing personal experiences of opening up emotionally and the impact it has had on his life. The Psychology Behind True Crime Podcasting [01:20:01 - 01:30:00] Gabby and Neil discuss Neil’s transition into crime podcasting, exploring the psychological elements that make true crime so engaging and how it helps listeners understand human behavior on a deeper level. Healing from Past Mistakes and Relationship Dynamics [01:30:01 - 01:40:00] Neil reflects on his past mistakes in relationships, how they have shaped him, and the role of forgiveness and self-awareness in healing. He also touches on the evolving dynamics in modern relationships. Balancing Professional Success and Personal Life [01:40:01 - 01:50:00] The conversation shifts to the topic of maintaining a balance between professional aspirations and personal fulfillment. Neil shares insights into how he has managed to balance writing, podcasting, and personal growth. Everything Gabby Reece: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@GabbyReece Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gabbyreece/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@gabbyreeceofficial Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/OfficialGabrielleReece/ Gabby Reece Website - https://gabriellereece.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices