#29DaysofMagic - Episode 189: Saying Yes to Yourself with Lidia Bonilla

Welcome to day 31 of #29DaysofMagic! In today's episode I get to have an excellent conversation with Lidia Bonilla, Pleasure Strategist and founder of House of Plume. We talk about how she started working at only 14 years old, for about two weeks until Domino's discovered that she was not old enough to have the job, how later she went to finance and working in discovering tax fraud and bankroll issues. She discovered that some banks would be helping laundering money, and after becoming disillusioned with how little the banks cared, starting House of Plume during that time she decided to switch to becoming more entrepreneurial based. We talk about how she was able to become the first Adult Brand that was permitted on Kickstarter, which was influential for the future of Kickstarer. We get to talk about how self care is important, and the definition of pleasure in that it is broader than most people think and is about how you experience things. We talk about the differences between coping and pleasure. Boundaries are the best form of self care, which is to say, know how to say "no," to things you don't want to do. Lidia would like you to practice saying "No" for five days, when it feels right, and see how that changes your life. Connect with her here: https://www.lidiabonilla.com/ https://www.instagram.com/lidiabonilla.co Sponsored by Sohoworks --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/the-reset-podcast/support